Almost everyone has a dream that seems unattainable. You alone may not think you can pull it off, then you make the mistake of sharing your dream with someone totally undeserving of hearing it and you get the “now what makes you think you can do that?” look. Unfortunately, we can be our own worst enemy and friends and family are our resident goon squad. No wonder the dream seems impossible, there is no faith and positivity behind it.
If there is a dream in your heart, you have the responsibility to work towards it. All things are possible, especially those things you have a strong desire to achieve. The first step to living your dreams is to tell yourself you can do it. Start your mornings by speaking to yourself in the mirror; allowing only positive affirmations to leave your mouth. Example monologue: “Good morning Desiree! The start of this day brings you closer to your dream. You are hardworking, steadfast and dedicated to your goals. The ball is in your court and you’re destined to win. Don’t allow the negativity of others ruin your day. You are positive and will reap the benefits of your disposition. Have a very productive day! I love you!”
You may find it helpful to write a script to memorize and recite every morning. Having a standard conversation with yourself every morning will prevent you from saying anything negative by accident. Lets face it, some days we just don’t feel positive, but positive affirmations can make all the difference on those days. I emphasize the mirror because it is important that you see you telling you great things. You have to believe yourself in order to combat the negativity of others.
Although I would prefer not to hear anyone say what I want can’t be done, I accept it as a challenge. I get a kick out of showing Mr. and Mrs. Negative that I can indeed do the impossible. I believe that is a great approach to reversing the negativity– Oh you don’t think I can? Just watch me!!! Prime example— I’m starting a company during a recession that hasn’t even peaked yet, but I can guarantee you I will succeed!
In closing, you know who the nay sayers are. They don’t deserve the privilege of knowing your dreams. They’ll know soon enough when you’re living it!
Be unstoppable!